Dear Darcey,

"Last night I wad getting ready to represent my company at an outdoor community concert and I couldn't figure out what to wear! I wanted to look casual because it was a chill event but put together because I was representing. My wardrobe was looking tired, my legs (the body part I used to show off) are so pasty because I have had skin cancer twice and now get no sun and even though I've lost 30 pounds I felt so fat! Currently the majority of my dresser and closet is in plastic bags to give away. I need LifeStyled!"

- In Need Now!

Dear In Need,

I'm so proud of you for loosing that weight! Don't get discouraged. You are looking at yourself and how you want to feel in your clothes from a whole new perspective. Instead of using your clothes to hide in you are now using them to show off the confidence you feel. Because of that you may need to completely re-evaluate how your style is communicating for you, also the structure of clothes, the shape, cut, and texture of them. This may also address your other question about clothes looking crappy after one wear. Although I'd need to ask a lot more questions about that to get you a thoughtful answer this is a good place to start.

As for white skin - Jergens Natural Glow lotion! Amazing but not severe results that give the skin a warm kiss of color.

Though I am not in the same city as you any more that doesn't mean we can't work together. We could do a Virtual Rescue and especially if you have Skype, I can help get you some ideas and tools to use in a short amount of time (for not much money). Let's try to talk on the phone maybe to see if that's fit.

Until then don't forget, we all see you and we think you're amazing.

- Darcey